Simply love dating
The church has reached a difficult crossroads when it comes to pre–marriage romance.
We no longer have rituals of courtship and arranged marriage to guide us every step of the way. It's also spawned a whole range of opinions and advice on how to handle dating.
But, as in all things, it's best to ask for his guidance.
The Bible promises he will provide that whenever we ask.
" (No, that wasn't a suggestion for you to set up an arranged marriage.) For the Hebrews and the early church, dating wasn't an issue to be addressed in Scripture. When the Bible was written, a person basically had one of three options: remaining single, an amoral life with multiple partners or prostitutes, or an arranged marriage.
There were courtship rituals in place, but nothing that looks like what we consider dating today.
Whom you married wasn't even up to you most of the time.
But I do know this—if you rely on this idea too much, your dating life will get really confusing.
He made fun of modern dating, saying, "By the time you get married now, the fun is over.
In an arranged marriage, the fun starts after the wedding!
Once they've done that, God increases his sustaining presence.
I'm not saying that God doesn't have a will regarding your dating life.